Vivaah Samskaar - Hindu Marraige

 

Om Namah Shivaya

All materials for full pooja should be made available for the Dwaar pooja.

Note: Mango leaves, doob grass and flowers should be picked and neatly sorted in trays. Not plastic bags.

  • If you can use only one color sheet for spreading.
  • Empty sindoor, hardi and googol from paper into small containers.
  • Fill out a pre registration list for the marriage certificate.
  • Have a small neat table close by with maalas, colored sheet to cover for sindoor.
  • Arrange prior for the 5 ladies to parchay the dulahaa on arrival.
  • Invite the male relative early to join in the milaap when dulahaa arrives.
  • Have extra yellow cloth and safety pins.
  • Assign three girls to welcome guests and distribute programmes.
  • Have your dressing room cleared and restrict entry when changing.

Your poojas at home should be conducted prior to the wedding, as also your pitra tarpan and simple shraad. Your child  should be initiated and sit also to perform this pooja.

Before Friday’s Hardi, clothing, hardi, coconut oil and doob grass should be exchanged by both sides.

The Hardi Friday is very important, so observe all modes of fast and discipline. When Kangann is tied , one must restrict all physical contact with others and should also not venture outside the home.